Jose came to us in the
middle of March of 2011. He had been abandoned and left in the park and was
told by his parents that they would come back for him soon. He waited for
three hours but they did not return he was abandoned so Jose sought out the
help of the police.
His father is an alcoholic and is physically abusive
with Jose and his mother. He has seven siblings and his older sister has not
lived with the family for a while. When his mother was interviewed she told
the psychologist that Jose was not well behaved and often had an attitude and
would not shower. She also said he had been stealing. At this point he has
had so
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Valeriano´s first day at home |
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Valeriano this year |
me rebellious attitudes at times but does obey. With us, he is mostly
eager to please and is very affectionate.
He was brought to our Home the afternoon of the day he
was found and we have been granted temporary custody of him. His mother told
us and the courts that it was better for him to stay here permanently because
she is afraid of the extreme physical abuse from his alcoholic father.
Two weeks ago he had his audience and the
judge decided that Jose has to go back with his family, but Jose talked to
the judge and ask him to stay with us because he wants to have a better life
and he wants to continue study and have better opportunities in the future.
He told the Judge that for him our home is his home and he doesn’t want to
leave. For a child that is 13 years old is a big decision to stay with us
instead of going back home. We are
very thankful with the Lord because Jose is going to stay with us permanently
and he is going to continue knowing God and receiving love and protection.
Jose is 13 years old, he is in 5th
grade. He is attending a private school and enjoys learning English and
playing soccer and loves to give hugs! He interacts very well with everybody at
home. Valeriano is a very kind boy, when we celebrates birthdays
at home he loves to make a nice card for that person or if somebody is sick
he is always concern about that person and make little notes to make the
person to feel better. He loves to help with the different things at home. He
is improving in his English conversations with the visitors.
In the home we
have the custom to celebrate our children's birthdays with a cake and a little
present. The children are counting the days before their birthdays because they
know they are going to have a special cake and a little present. For them to
celebrate their birthdays means a lot because it makes them to feel loved and
part of the family. We eat the cake in the afternoon when everybody is
together. We sing happy birthday and the child receives an envelope with some
money. When the girls are at home they help to bake the cake and they love to
decorate it. Their favourite cakes are chocolate, strawberry, and lemon. Last
month we celebrated Noe's and Silvestre´s birthday
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Silvestre´s Birthday |
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Noe´s Birthday |
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